Sacrifice

*edited* (updated 12.41am 9th september)
Love, falling in love, rejected. This time i want to talk about sacrifice.
You see, Love really makes us sacrfice. Im not sure you all know what i mean about sacrifice.
But what we sacrifice and why we sacrifice in relationship and friendship ?
Now here is some point to refresh your mind. Something we all know but seldom come into our mind.

Love sacrifice - your time.
When u're in love with someone you will tend to spend more time, or find time to see or be with the person. You just want to see the person's face eventhough its just a few second. Evenhough we're busy we still can squeeze in a little time just to think of the person we like. Time is so precious and time is gold. Money can't buy us love, but somehow in love we can give our time. You just want to be there, one call and you will straight away be there for the person. Just like the song "...just call my name and i'll be there...".

Love sacrifice - your money
This one i dont need to explain more lah. I'm sure u all know also. Example, You just want to buy gift to bless the someone you like or friend, to make the person happy. Because if the person is happy, you will feel happy. The smile is powerful, priceless,a reward and can even give us energy evernthogh we're tired. HAHA !! Better than Redbull. Petrol price go up and we still drive a long journey to see the person. Some even fly to another state or country just to see the person.

Love Sacrifice - you energy.
Why energy ? Simple, you do what they say, help the person when they need you. Eventhough you are tired but when the person asked you to help, you still can find energy to do for the person. It's the love that gives us the energy. ( But dont force yourself, If you're at your limit, dont try to be hero). There are people who really used their energy, just to be there or help the person they like and forget about their body limit and in the end they get sick. It's important to take good care of our health.


In relationship, people already start doing all this thing to get acceptence sometimes. But when things goes wrong, it will really hurt the person. Let say you spend a lot of time, energy or money on the person but the person didnt appreciate or even thank you for what you did for them. It feels like all your hope went into a drain or flush down the toilet bowl. Having sleepless night and cry when you sleep. Ever wonder why we can just accept what they just said and saying sorry eventhough its not our fault or the person never think of our side of stories ? I think some of you will agree on what i say, and again what i think is not 100% right. Diffrent people think diffrently. And honestly i also hope that you all can share what you all think. ( i wrote all this so that we can share what we think and maybe from this we can learn from each other)

Well you see, relationship is not a one side thing, it includes two side expressing feelings. If you invest all your love, money and time and your hope, and nothing happen, i think there are few possibilities. It's either its not what they wanted, they just dont know how to appreciate or not the right time or maybe we invest on the wrong person or the right person. I dont know, you have to find out yourselves. If you invest on the person and there's nothing happen then move on. Because time wont turn back, dont waste your time. The more time you invested, the more time you feel depress.

But dont let negative things get into your head. Think on the bright side, think on positive things. We can use our time to serve God. Use our money and energy on mission work and helping others. I'm not saying spending time,money and energy on a person is not wrong, but spend it WISELY, dont simply spend it.

But there's one Love that really sacrfices all, God's love. God so loved the world, He love us so much He sacrificed His only Son for us. And yet we sinners flush down His love down the drain, pursuing other 'love'. But God didnt invest on the wrong people, because we are His children. Imagine, when you needed money, God bless you in financial. When u need strength, God bless you also.And you asked for time, God didnt turn back the time for you ( everyone is equal) but He showed you the way and opportunity.

God always waiting for us to go back to His side. Its never late to come back to Him again. He will always accept us with open arm and forgive us. If you seek God first, God will answer what we want. He will show us His way.
If we sacrfice our all to God, God will give us new one !!
Trust and Believe. Let go and let God !


Matthew 6:33