Falling In & Falling Out

On the previous post, i shared about LOVE.
I got people asking me about this topic and what do i think.
Honestly, i dont know. Personally im not good in this. Im bad in relationship.
Maybe you can say im not mature enough.
Im still learning.

So,What makes a person to fall in love ?

Many answer. Fall in love because to show off ur friends, because you just want to have attention from someone, or you are impressed by someone ? Fall in love because you need someone ? what is the whole reason of falling in love ?

Im not quite sure how to answer this because different people might have different answer. But i know falling in love is a serious thing. Once you're in love, your mindset change. Maybe last time you might used to think " i dont need a boyfriend/girlfriend, i prefer to be single", but once you're in love you will sure change. You think differently.

It changes a person's thinking, and it also changes someone's behaviour, or action. When you are single, we are like that like that ...then once we're in love ..we do things differently ..we then now do things like this like this. Why ? Maybe to impress ? Or to help the person ? Or just being helpful,concern and caring ?

Our thinking changes our behaviour, and at the same time ..our behavious changes our thinking too. Either way, we change. But i know some people still behave or think the same before and or pursuing ? why ? This one i dont know. I'm wondering why too and wanted to know this. Issit maybe the person is slow ? Or the person have this ' just accept me for who i am ' mindset ?

i dont know.

Its not easy too fall in love sometimes, because you dont know what the other person is thinking. Whether the person like you or not, or will it work. Yes, its a challenge. And must always have a proper manner and respect for the person. Well i cant think of other things yet i leave it to you all to think.

But what really in my mind now and im concern is how do we react when people turn you down ?

Tough huh? Im sure everyone dont want to get to that part. Haha! ( not funny) I know it feels sucks! And its hard time to go through. Two way, you either learn it HARD way or VERY HARD way! why ? Because you got turned down, of course hard lah! If we dont learn how to put it down and move on, then we sure got into the VERY HARD way. So how to react when you
got turned down ? Im not sure either thats why its still in my mind NOW. But what i know is that you have to respect the decision that the other person's decide.

Don't try to force it down the person's throat. You might end up getting urself hurt or choke too. Learn from it, MOVE ON. If he/she is the right one, in future he/she will accept you. Dont stuck at hell, no point staying there and suffer. Just keep walking and move. Look at the brighter side. Dont let the hurt feeling hook on you, because it only brings depression.So just MOVE ON!!!

Thats the end for tonight. I dont want you all feel so tired reading my long post. Hopefully you all dont get bored. I wrote this post and the previous post because i notice that our society or our world is changing. im sure the percentage of people's
problem are because of one word, LOVE. ( love for money also Love lah)

Thats why i decide to write about this word LOVE.

God bless you all !


Matther 6:33